What is a "Daddy Dom"? Thanks mostly to UB, I got it in my head that a Daddy Dom must be a loving Daddy for a baby or little girl, but now I find that all it takes to be a Daddy Dom is to believe in giving your sub playmate some aftercare. Apparently the non-Daddy Doms don't do aftercare. So, naturally, all these women flodding into BDSM are saying they want Daddy Doms.
What is a "Little"? I always thought a Little was a person (or more of a mindset) where you felt yourself age-regressed to a way of thinking about yourself and the world like you did (or should have) as a biological child. But apparently, Little now is just used as a subset for submissive.
This becomes terribly confusing when you are a Little and not into BDSM or a Little and not seeking a sexual relationship because both definitions of Daddy Dom and Little are still out there and some people use them one way and some the other. And, because we don't want to be judgmental of each other, we can't just say, "No, that's not what the word means!" But I'm so so frustrated with trying to find people with whom I can discuss nurturing relationships or with whom I can share my feelings about being little.
But at least I finally understand why these people only want to talk about dungeons, collars, and ouchy new toys, and why they roll their eyes when I want to talk about favorite board games, books, and my sticker collection.