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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to Eurydice intro :

 

Hiya Eurydice! It's an odd thing to figure out, for sure, and we can relate to the nervousness of not knowing how someone else is going to react to it all. How long have you been married? Is he aware of any hint of your needs at all? Often people kind of joke about, or bring up a much milder version of, stuff like this to test the waters. I can't tell you how many times in my life I made a casual-sounding joke about someone deserving a spanking, or called someone "little girl" flirtatiously, just to watch their eyes to see whether I should laugh it off as a joke, or if there was any small spark of the remotest interest in their eyes. It's not exactly the same, but I recently had a very good, very vanilla friend get redirected to this site accidentally, because of a mistake on my part, and I'm still half-mortified at what they might think about it all. Hope to discuss this more, and follow your journey! --UB

 

in room Foyer

Hello, 

I'm just trying to figure out my way in this world and hopefully get the courage to include my husband. 

Eurydice 


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to Eurydice intro :

 

Hiya Eurydice! It's an odd thing to figure out, for sure, and we can relate to the nervousness of not knowing how someone else is going to react to it all. How long have you been married? Is he aware of any hint of your needs at all? Often people kind of joke about, or bring up a much milder version of, stuff like this to test the waters. I can't tell you how many times in my life I made a casual-sounding joke about someone deserving a spanking, or called someone "little girl" flirtatiously, just to watch their eyes to see whether I should laugh it off as a joke, or if there was any small spark of the remotest interest in their eyes.

 

It's not exactly the same, but I recently had a very good, very vanilla friend get redirected to this site accidentally, because of a mistake on my part, and I'm still half-mortified at what they might think about it all.

 

--UB

 

in room Foyer

Hello, 

I'm just trying to figure out my way in this world and hopefully get the courage to include my husband. 

Eurydice 


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Hello, 

I'm just trying to figure out my way in this world and hopefully get the courage to include my husband. 

Eurydice 


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to UB's Blather Control Problem:

 

*kissing her bottom tenderly*

 

in room

 

There are certain parts of domesticity that feel just perfectly
appropriate to connect to her Liddel side. The growedup side of her is
very helpful and does so much, but the Liddel side of her has chores and
rules around the house that are emphasized as being Squeaky's
rules, as opposed to Carolyn's. Above and beyond and outside the
covenant of two adults sharing a household, dividing the minutia of living
life in whatever way they've agreed.


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:

 

Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be something positive in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I do also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.

Let me know if you need anything! We have extra pillows for sittin' on around here!

--UB
in room

I have never safe worded out in 16 years. I've never even come close to feeling as if I needed to.

But I came as close as I ever have so not long ago.

Granted, I absolutely deserved the severity of the punishment I was given. And it was delivered with one of the most severe implements we have – a long, wide, leather strap that has been the bane of my existence since Daddy got it.


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:

 

Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be someone positive in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I do also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand afterward, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.

Let me know if you need anything!

--UB
in room

I have never safe worded out in 16 years. I've never even come close to feeling as if I needed to.

But I came as close as I ever have so not long ago.

Granted, I absolutely deserved the severity of the punishment I was given. And it was delivered with one of the most severe implements we have – a long, wide, leather strap that has been the bane of my existence since Daddy got it.


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:

 

Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be someone positive in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I do also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand afterward, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.

Let me know if you need anything!

--UB
in room

I have never safe worded out in 16 years. I've never even come close to feeling as if I needed to.

But I came as close as I ever have so not long ago.

Granted, I absolutely deserved the severity of the punishment I was given. And it was delivered with one of the most severe implements we have – a long, wide, leather strap that has been the bane of my existence since Daddy got it.


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:

 

Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be someone [em]positive[/em] in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I [em]do[/i] also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand afterward, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.

Let me know if you need anything!

--UB
in room

I have never safe worded out in 16 years. I've never even come close to feeling as if I needed to.

But I came as close as I ever have so not long ago.

Granted, I absolutely deserved the severity of the punishment I was given. And it was delivered with one of the most severe implements we have – a long, wide, leather strap that has been the bane of my existence since Daddy got it.


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::: Taking a walkabout around the Island, and coming upon the site of the old Snuggery, makes my melancholia gland squirt salty stuff into my eyes. The spirit of so many Inner Children being brave and peaking out here back when it was still so taboo, so misunderstood, feels like it lingers on the beach here, and the treehouses, and the swingsets...


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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to Evie's intro:

 

Hiya Evie! I remember you. I'm pleased to see you here! We just put the place up recently, and haven't publicized it yet, but we're going to do that this week, so I hope you come swimming by again very soon! Let me know if you need anything! Still got plenty of butterscotches around here! :)

--UB

 

in room Foyer

I used to be on here a long time ago with the same name. I've been Evie as long as I've realized I had a IK.  I'm 6 years old usually but sometimes younger. I just thought I'd drop back in and see what's going on. I miss playing with my friends... 


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"Topping from the bottom?? I don't even bottom from the bottom!"

--Squeaky, cracking me up while across my lap, obliterating the serious, meaningful, fraught-and-tingly atmosphere I was so carefully crafting with lighting, and murmured words...

But it was worth it.

"Isn't fun the best thing to have??"
--Arthur

 

--UB

 


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Tonight I was leaning down over her, almost conspiratorially, and murmuring reassurances and tokens of adoration that were more like sounds, than actual words, in the lower, slower register of my voice, which seems to comfort her.

She looked up at me and her eyes were so sad -- well, not so much sad, as kind of imbued with the ongoing wince of a pain that there's just no answer for.


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