I'un just me. Love to read about certain things my S.O. wouldn't understand. Love to travel too. Want to fantasize with people he wouldn't understand either. Not sure what I should say. Hope to meet people. Byeeee!
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Kelly Skytower replied to I am Kelly!:
Hi Laura and thank you. I can't wait to explore, I'm not quite sure where everythings at.
Kelly Skytower replied to I am Kelly!:
Hi Joanne, Thank you!
Joanne_chan replied to Learning How to Parent:
I would agree we need to our respect to those who are our Caregivers, appreciating them.
Laura Anne replied to Learning How to Parent:
As hard as it is for us to talk about what we need, I don't want to lose sight of my key point: we need to use our polite words (please and thank you) and show appreciation to the people who give something of themselves to us. It's emotionally exhausting to be a care giver and after they have worked so hard to figure out the stuff that even we don't get, they need an emotional recharge.
Joanne_chan replied to Learning How to Parent:
This is sometimes difficult having had it with my caregiver, sometimes being a little to forgiving and finding it hard to judge where it's the case I knew and could of done better in that situation but chose not to and when genuinely I was well out of it and really just needed pulling away a bit like the other person was saying really.
Just getting to the point we can have a emotionally honest conversation about what we want them to do to/for us can sometimes seem hard going, like I remember the time I asked to taken to one side for a spanking or to sit out an activity we were all do do instead (if it of been arkward to done anything on the spot).
Chris_minor replied to Learning How to Parent:
I can understand that as I used to get into arguments that I felt I had to continue with until I go the last word or going 180 degrees round and just freezing over as they got more and more into a rant that my emotions were blurred mess.
I find it easier now people do feel more entitled to step in more and quickly although it can be hard to get someone to assume the parental place when you badly need it at the beginning as they think you know what to do and will do it. I can't speak for you but often don't not helped by being traumatized by various stuff in my past that means peopel can easily trigger me apart from having huge trust issues which si what happened last week..
Anyway I do agree with you and we do need to be prepared to work with our Caregivers nurturing discipline.
Rgds Chris.
Laura Anne posted Learning How to Parent
Laura Anne replied to I am Kelly!:
Hello Kelly!
Welcome to the Island. Things are a bit quiet, but please come and hang around. UB is one of the very nicest people in the whole world and this is a special place.
Come by and say hello if you like!
Laura
Joanne_chan replied to I am Kelly!:
Hello and welcome to Guardian Island, Kelly.
Carolyn Faulkner
Wed, 10/09/2019 - 14:30
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Hi, Scarlet!
We both love to read and write about all sorts of squirmy things, and we hope there'll be lots of people doing exactly that here!
And we love to travel, too!!
Mr. UB Faulkner
Wed, 10/09/2019 - 22:12
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Greetings Scarlet! Well done! I hope maybe you'll feel comfy enough to share with us, but no pressure of course! Let us know if we can do anything!
--UB