I'un just me. Love to read about certain things my S.O. wouldn't understand. Love to travel too. Want to fantasize with people he wouldn't understand either. Not sure what I should say. Hope to meet people. Byeeee!
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Mr. UB Faulkner replied to Eurydice intro :
Hiya Eurydice! It's an odd thing to figure out, for sure, and we can relate to the nervousness of not knowing how someone else is going to react to it all. How long have you been married? Is he aware of any hint of your needs at all? Often people kind of joke about, or bring up a much milder version of, stuff like this to test the waters. I can't tell you how many times in my life I made a casual-sounding joke about someone deserving a spanking, or called someone "little girl" flirtatiously, just to watch their eyes to see whether I should laugh it off as a joke, or if there was any small spark of the remotest interest in their eyes. It's not exactly the same, but I recently had a very good, very vanilla friend get redirected to this site accidentally, because of a mistake on my part, and I'm still half-mortified at what they might think about it all. Hope to discuss this more, and follow your journey! --UB
Mr. UB Faulkner replied to Eurydice intro :
Hiya Eurydice! It's an odd thing to figure out, for sure, and we can relate to the nervousness of not knowing how someone else is going to react to it all. How long have you been married? Is he aware of any hint of your needs at all? Often people kind of joke about, or bring up a much milder version of, stuff like this to test the waters. I can't tell you how many times in my life I made a casual-sounding joke about someone deserving a spanking, or called someone "little girl" flirtatiously, just to watch their eyes to see whether I should laugh it off as a joke, or if there was any small spark of the remotest interest in their eyes.
It's not exactly the same, but I recently had a very good, very vanilla friend get redirected to this site accidentally, because of a mistake on my part, and I'm still half-mortified at what they might think about it all.
--UB
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*kissing her bottom tenderly*
Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:
Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be something positive in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I do also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.
Let me know if you need anything! We have extra pillows for sittin' on around here!
--UB
Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:
Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be someone positive in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I do also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand afterward, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.
Let me know if you need anything!
--UB
Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:
Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be someone positive in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I do also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand afterward, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.
Let me know if you need anything!
--UB
Mr. UB Faulkner replied to When you forget that you even *have* a safe word . . .:
Interesting fodder for thought, girls. I think a lot of Daddy/Dom types partly have a fetish for severity, at least judging by the most popular erotica that's about C.P. and Adult Ageplay. Personally, I don't feel a craving to be severe, but (based on all the illions and illions of hours we spent talking about what we both wanted) I do strive to make Adoring Discipline feel like real, actual discipline for real, actual things... Though of course the "Adoring" comes first in Adoring Discipline, so the most important thing for me is that it truly be someone [em]positive[/em] in the big picture for her, even if she's hating in the proverbial heat of the moment. I have to say I [em]do[/i] also feel like tears are the gateway to her Littler side, that tears show me she's experiencing it from the Little headspace moreso than the adult -- after all (were it ethical to do it), if a six-year-old got paddled with a hairbrush, tears would start immediately -- and they almost always do, with Carolyn. When my loving, gentle, but firm, scolding beforehand, and the warmup with my hand afterward, bring no sign of tears, I know that I have failed to draw her into Littlespace for this punishment scene, and usually just abort early and opt for holding her instead.
Let me know if you need anything!
--UB
Mr. UB Faulkner replied to Evie's intro:
Hiya Evie! I remember you. I'm pleased to see you here! We just put the place up recently, and haven't publicized it yet, but we're going to do that this week, so I hope you come swimming by again very soon! Let me know if you need anything! Still got plenty of butterscotches around here! :)
--UB
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Carolyn Faulkner
Wed, 10/09/2019 - 14:30
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Hi, Scarlet!
We both love to read and write about all sorts of squirmy things, and we hope there'll be lots of people doing exactly that here!
And we love to travel, too!!
Mr. UB Faulkner
Wed, 10/09/2019 - 22:12
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Greetings Scarlet! Well done! I hope maybe you'll feel comfy enough to share with us, but no pressure of course! Let us know if we can do anything!
--UB