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What's your least favorite discipline method?

The title says it all. 

 

I'm looking for some good discipline/punishment  methods. Anything that's 'pg-13' and below . 

I'm interested in hearing about all kinds including physical, but  Specifically I'd like to hear about your creative and non-physically-painful related experiences. It can be physically stressful, just not painful. I already know about corner time - I'm hoping for some suggestions that are more creative.

 I have a little who seems to like punishment. She was seeking out line writing assignments on her own in the past, and she likes spanknigs. In my  opinion, it's can't be a real punishment if the little is enjoying it.  I refuse to tricked into that. 

What can I do ? I've already agreed no cold-shouldering / ignoring her - so it can't be that. 

Share your least favorite punishments here!

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  • 12 dropping to 9ish Middle
  • Loves cats
    Good mostly pretty bad rest of time
    Love icecream and S. Fried Chicken
    Spankable
    You could remove things like

    You could remove things like watching favourite tv programs that has been threatened with me or taking away nin-essential internet usage

    Joanne

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    There's the no treats

    There's the no treats punishment and that can be food or deserts or other treats like watchin a movie or go'in to a place. I think the last one is also known as the 'bored out of my mind' punishment .. and actually Joannes' favorite programs punishment sorta covers the movie thing. Some things are worse than others depending on the person so maybe ya gota figure out a custom punishment? 

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    Thanks guys! I think that

    Thanks guys! I think that gives me a good starting point.  I'll have to think of something she really likes

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  • mosly im 6+ here
  • liless me beez2-4
    sometimes im not very proper : /
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    This is me >   

    This is me >indecision   

     

     

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    laughi gots sum advice for the lil involved.

    Patend your favrit thing is say bannanas n  you hate say cake. This way they hold back the treat ya didnt really like n give ya the one ya does!! N also say you in trubble,, n when it comes time fir them ta relize ya is beg to em please please dont take away my ________!  N fill that blank with sum en ya dont even care for much.

    But best advice is justa amitt when ya did sum en never lie bout that,fact this is jussa joke n i hasta stop viewin thority frigirs as myn enemies.laugh

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    Fit the crime.

    Make the punishment fit the crime. For example, Soap is traditionally good at cleaning potty mouths. Trust me.  I know...    Scrubbing floors tends to give you time to think about drawing on walls and furnature. (After you scrubbed your drawing away, that is.)

     Demand hand-written apologies when appropriate.  Even if (especially if) it is to a total stranger they badmouthed or splashed or whatever.   At least two paragraphs, explaining how they will behave in the future.   Force restitution where appropriate. (Take that broken window out of their allowance)

     

    Punishments should teach the child something. Not just make them miserable.

    "Goin on twelve"

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    i personally don't like mouth

    i personally don't like mouth-soapping... it's yuck yuck yuck.

    i've heard of people disciplining with corner time, and having to hold a penny on the wall while in the corner... with their nose.

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    Embarrassing clothes

    For a masculine boy you could make him wear panties and bra. Nothing else around the house and under his normal clothes in public. Makes me blush just thinking about it!

    Is there any clothing that she hates to wear? How about a school uniform?

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    Time out

    Good old fashioned time out to sit and think especially if the lil has got upset and angry.

    Keeping the close by so they know they are not alone, then when they have calmed down and had a few minutes thinking time then it can be talked about and ways of doing better next time 

    Angelica

     

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    Angelica Giftworthy wrote:

    Angelica Giftworthy wrote:

    Good old fashioned time out to sit and think especially if the lil has got upset and angry.

    Keeping the close by so they know they are not alone, then when they have calmed down and had a few minutes thinking time then it can be talked about and ways of doing better next time 

     

    yeah .. thats probly my least fav'rit ... makes me sad just thinkin 'bout it. sad

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    Our keeper has a "grounding

    Our keeper has a "grounding computer program" you have to sit in front of a grey screen and click buttons when a pop-up comes up and you only have a few seconds to click the right button and there could be 20 mins between pop ups. Oh and any mistakes means you gotta restart. I hate it. It's very effective at behavior change.

    i'm 4 most ob the time but sumtimes I am 2. I have a daddy who might join with me later.